DOMINATE 2019 Part 1 - Halfass to Badass

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Find out what the people who win BIG today think and how they act differently.
Find out how what you can ALWAYS do to get yourself out of the whirlwind of the day-to-day.
And see how Satori reveals the secret to setting the right goals.

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Skip to: 04:19 And this is going to help you put you in charge of your dreams, put you in charge of your goals so you can dominate your life and not be dominated by it.

Skip to: 05:42 We live in this world, where we’re, so many of us are overwhelmed, overworked, we’re spread thin and we have a million plates spinning at all times, trying to make everything important. And as a result, nothing becomes important.

Skip to: 07:36 And we need to be able to remove ourselves from that and take control and dominate our own thoughts, our own feelings and behaviors in order to change things.

Skip to: 10:54 And if you’re chasing those because someone told you, you should or because you’ve been so indoctrinated, so hypnotized to believe, to value that thing and you’re not achieving it, it’s not because you can’t – it’s because it really doesn’t matter to you.

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Okay, welcome to dominate. And this is about the roadmap to your business and your life, your income… Your whole life and your business is all integrated. So I’m not going to separate them. This is all part of you, of your journey, your life journey. This is really a systematic way of taking control of how you think, how you feel, how you behave so you can achieve really what you want and what really matters to you.

And this is going to help you put you in charge of your dreams, put you in charge of your goals so you can dominate your life and not be dominated by it.

I know you know the word domination, been used in many different ways, but I really, I really mean this in the purest sense.

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You either dominating or being dominated, right? It’s just a law of life.

This training, this workshop is for you to make sure that you’re not leaving your dreams, your thoughts, your feelings, right? The things you want for your life, “hoping” for it to happen, not something you can look back on and say, “It” didn’t happen. All right.

And it’s also not about beating yourself up.

We all have experiences of disappointment, right? Of goals and dreams that have not been met. We all have that. And most of the time it was not even your fault, really. It wasn’t. I’ll tell you why in just a moment.

I want to start off by saying that because we live in a world that is moving so rapidly, right? Yet it may feel like you’re standing still.

Like you’re not moving toward what you want. Fast enough. That makes sense. Right?

We live in this world, where we’re, so many of us are overwhelmed, overworked, we’re spread thin and we have a million plates spinning at all times, trying to make everything important. And as a result, nothing becomes important.

Nothing gets the necessary focus and attention and therefore, momentum slows down or stops, right?

And that’s where we stop. We beat ourselves up with judge yourself and criticize yourself. We think we should be further along than we are and all these different things that complicate things.

Today I want to demystify that and I want to clarify so that there’s a way for you to set your intention and your focus on the right things and it’s not the right things for me is what’s right for you.

So the people that are winning in today’s marketplace, in today’s world, they there are narrowing their focus, they’re not going to wide. Everyone else is going wide, and they’re lacking precision. So today will also be a small introduction to my precision based growth training.

The people who are dominating, and crushing it today, have more of a sniper approach.

It’s very, very targeted. And everyone else who is, you know, losing battles, getting killed in the marketplace, are setting fantasy goals without a clear strategy for execution. Whether that’s in your personal life or whether it’s your in your professional life, it doesn’t really matter. It’s all the same, right?

Because it still requires you, it requires your thinking, requires your feelings, requires your behaviors, right? The actions, if you’re proactive or reactive. It all matters, right?

So if you’re caught in the whirlwind, of the day to day, you’re going to be stuck there just like everyone else.

And we need to be able to remove ourselves from that and take control and dominate our own thoughts, our own feelings and behaviors in order to change things. So that’s why this really matters, right?

Because we have a problem most people don’t know about, and I think this is critical. We have a problem most people don’t know they have and it’s causing a lot of pain for business owners.

It’s causing pain for leaders for individuals for moms and dads in how they raise their children. The problem they don’t know they have is that we’ve been indoctrinated and trained to adopt others’ values rather than our own, right?

We’re trying to pursue others dreams, believing that they are the right dreams, the right values. And it’s kind of a “good girl”, “good boy” syndrome that is dominating our thoughts and feelings and our behaviors and therefore, our results are going to be impacted, or the lack of results are going to be impacted. Right.

We’ve been chasing social conditioning, a fantasy and you can see it on social media all the time, right?

I was having a conversation with a guy the other day, right? We’re looking at social media and we see these pictures of these, you know, beautiful homes, beautiful cars, beautiful bodies.

These are like moments, snapshots. And we believe this is the life that this person lives. And we don’t understand that they have turmoil, they have disappointments, upsets and all these other things. So they put this person or this, you know, this guru on a pedestal, thinking they are a certain way and that they don’t have the other side.

And if you believe that, this is the time to demystify it because it’s not true. We have all areas of life, right? And so we need to start getting clear on that. Even though you know that intellectually you can stop and think about that because you may have been chasing the wrong target. You may have been chasing the wrong goals. And when I say the wrong goals, I’m not saying that they’re wrong because in of themselves, they may be wrong for you.

And if they’re wrong for you, they’re wrong, right? If you’ve been chasing it because other people want you to chase them because your mom, your dad, you know, your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your cat, your dog wanted you to achieve those goals, you’re chasing the wrong target. Okay?

So this is not about beating yourself up. I want to clarify this. So going back to what I told you in the beginning here about why it’s not even your fault is because of this.

Because if you have set targets, goals, ideals, right? Social idealism that you have chased.

And if you’re chasing those because someone told you, you should or because you’ve been so indoctrinated, so hypnotized to believe, to value that thing and you’re not achieving it, it’s not because you can’t – it’s because it really doesn’t matter to you.

You just believed it mattered. But you were chasing a lie. And that may sound kind of harsh to say, but I just want you to think about this.

Why am I saying this?

I’m saying this because if you don’t start by identifying who you are, what you want, what you truly want, right? When I say truly want, I’m saying not based on fantasy on what we might believe will give us more respect, more appreciation, more love, more significance from other people, because then we’ll be chasing the wrong targets.

So if you want to achieve the kind of goals and dreams that truly matter, that create a meaningful life and where you can be in control of your life, of your business or your health, and not be seduced, then this is what we’re going to dive into today.

So let me start first by just getting into the seven areas of life.

You’ve probably seen many different versions of this, but I’m going to share these areas with you because I think they are the areas where most people want to make improvements.

I’m going to classify for you how you can make these improvements or how you make these shifts, right? That you want to have happen.

Before we do that, let’s just go into the areas so you can at least see them.

We have 7 areas to look at.

The first one is your mental area. Your mental capacities and your ability to focus or decision making. Your ability to handle the stress, your ability to have clarity, your mental capacity, right? Your mental focus. You may want to improve that, right?

You got business and career. The business you’re in, the career, the vocation you have, right? That’s another area we can set goals and targets You can use different words. Targets, goals, outcomes, dreams. Okay.

Then we have your financial area. Your financial life, how you acquire money, how you manage money, how you invest your money, right? Your income.

Then we have the relationship area, right? Your relationship with yourself. Relationship with a spouse, relationship with kids, your family, your mom, and dad. Relationships. Sisters and brothers. You may have goals in that area, right? And we’re gonna be able to answer a question around that.

Meaning so we understand what, what you want. Like what’s, what’s one thing that you want to accomplish in the area of relationship? I don’t know what that is. We’re going to clarify that, whether that’s more intimacy, better communication, right? I don’t know what it is for you, but that’s the one area.

And then we have socially. The social area or being social, being with other people. Not directly connected to your closest family, right? People that you meet out. It can be work relationships, it can be friendships, it could be educational, it could be all kinds of people that you meet, right? It can even be social media relationships.

Then we have your physical area, right? Your physical health, your energy.

How you physically feel. And we all know that, right? We would that if you don’t feel good physically, nothing else really feels meaningful.

I mean, I know this year’s been quite a challenge for me in many ways physically. And it just makes it harder to enjoy life. Physical pain. If you don’t have the energy to move, right? If you, your brain is not active fully, that’s gonna impact you.

Are All these areas going to impact you, right?

So physical health, your vibrancy, the amount of energy that you have or the lack off, right? Whether it’s a weight goal or muscle gain that you want or you just want more energy, I don’t know what it is for you as this physical area.

And then we have the spiritual area. The spirit spiritual area is one of those areas that people have in their 7 areas of life and sometimes they don’t even know what it is. And they sometimes don’t know how to pinpoint what it is. There are many ways of describing it.

In my perception of spirituality, there’s no difference between inside, and outside. It’s all the same. It’s all part of being here.
I also look at it as a way to live in alignment with your values so you’re congruent with your values and be able to contribute those values to other people as well. That I am congruent and aligned with who I am and be able to share who I am with other people to contribute to other people’s lives.

So that’s the way I describe it. Which makes it more solid to me, not so abstract. Also something I can be more in control over and not leave it to other people or entities.

So those are the seven areas.

And this is what I’m planning in this first section today, to look at those seven areas, but also cover values. And the reason I want to cover values is because it’s critical. That’s what I’m going to go into right now…

How’d you like that? Like I said, I have a surprise. Tomorrow I’m going to release a BONUS session for you where I will walk you through how to identify your values so that when you set goals, that they are aligned with what you’re going after. Sound good?

So make sure you tune in to tomorrow’s bonus session on how to clarify your values. If you find this challenging and you want more clarity and if you want us to help you get with more clarity, focus and accountability go to TalkToSatori.com fill out an application, and we can get you on a call and get you to the next level. Again that’s TalkToSatori.com Buy for now.

If you’re wanting to grow and scale your business you’re probably studying a lot. That’s great. You’re probably studying all the different strategies out there, right? That’s also great.

But the hardest part is figuring out how to remove overwhelm and friction and get done what matters without burning yourself and without killing yourself in the process, right?

That’s what I struggled with for a while until I learned the secrets of Precision Based Growth.

So if you’re wondering how Precision Based Growth can work in your business or life, I created a special opportunity for you to get on a call with me to get you on track with the right focus, and more importantly, how to maximize growth, maximize efficiency and simplify. You’re not alone.

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